Some ways to educate poor children

Sorry if today I am again the mood to write an article about children's education. This is not in any order, but because more mood emang aja:)

And sorry if it've friends know better than me about this:)

According to me, here are some examples of how to educate poor children.

1. If the child had fallen because of nudging the table, we hit the desk and tell your toddler that tables are evil.
or:
if the child A child hit B so that the B cry, we will (pretend to) beat the A in front of the B to the B does not cry anymore.
This attitude will educate children to be vindictive man. The child will also be educated to become a man who never felt guilty. "Anyway, whatever happens, that's wrong is someone else, not me!"
 
 2. When children fall, we will immediately carry him and protect him, the child being seolah2 have just experienced a huge disaster.

This attitude will educate children to be spoiled man, who was not able to resist the trials of life. They would easily give up when facing problems.

I think, let alone if your child falls just ordinary. Said that the fall was common, and that he experienced no cause for concern. Unless falling so hard that his head swelled, it was another story, hehehe ...

3. To frighten the child will be a ghost.
Usually, this way is used by parents if they were naughty children or can not be told.

indeed, in the short term this attitude is usually effective. But for the long run, it just is not good. SI children will grow up to be a coward. he would be afraid of ghosts, but the genie is hanti or not to be feared. They are creatures that are much lower than humans. From now on, we just have to menamamkan understanding to the children that ghosts do not be afraid of. We just have to "take for granted" against a ghost.

4. Too many banned.
"No son, you'll fall."
"Do not play water dong,'ll catch cold."
"Why eat so covered? Nasty know!"
"It's rice thrown kok? Kan redundant!"

Son is the kind of human being in the learning process. So naturally dong, that they often make mistakes. If they throw rice, for example, the best step was not rebuked them and said it was wasteful. But it would be nice if we tell them in a way that is more fun, and be accepted by their minds are still limited.

Too many would also prohibit a man to raise children who do not dare to try new things.

5. Consider the child as a fool
We often say, "Ah, child, him anything!"

In fact, many small children who have demonstrated their greatness. They managed to prove that they are the ones that smart and powerful, although still a very young age.

I think we should appreciate the existence of any child, especially if the children themselves! We just have to treat them as a potential human being. We never know exactly, how much science is already saved on our child's head. Therefore, do not ever think they are stupid, do not know anything, and so on.

By treating them fairly, it will educate the child becomes a man who believes himself so that he will more easily achieve success.

6. Scold children if they ask
Maybe we have kids who ask too many questions. Because bored and annoyed, we scold him, saying they were talkative, even told him not to ask too many questions.

In fact, children are fussy or often asked, is actually a very smart kid. They want to know a lot of things. Because of that, try to put up with them. Answer Question2 them as much as possible, in a fun way. In this way, creativity and intelligence of the child will grow up naturally.